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Men Hurt Too

Theresa Bonapartis
Theresa Bonapartis
May 17, 2025

Men Hurt Too: A Day of Healing and Hope After Abortion

For over 20 years, Lumina, a post-abortion ministry of Good Counsel, has been walking with men through the often-silent sorrow that follows abortion. Now, more than ever, in this Year of Hope, we’re being called to spread the word: healing is possible.

Abortion wounds all who are involved—and while society often forgets the men, Lumina has not. Through its “Entering Canaan” men’s healing retreats, Lumina has helped hundreds of men encounter the mercy of God, find peace, and begin the journey of restoration. Still, many men remain in the shadows, suffering in silence, believing they are alone or unworthy of healing.

But hope can be sparked with a single word.

A man once told us, "I have been waiting over twenty years to see something offered for men who have been involved in abortion." His words are a powerful reminder: there are countless others like him, waiting—just waiting—to hear that healing is not only possible, but available.

That’s why we’re asking you to help spread the word.

On Saturday, June 21st, Lumina will host a confidential day retreat for men in Westchester, NY who have lost a child to abortion. This sacred space is designed to offer support, mercy, and the promise of God’s healing love.

📢 Bulletin Announcement (feel free to copy and share):

Men Hurt Too!
An Entering Canaan Retreat Day for men, sponsored by Good Counsel’s Lumina program, will be offered in Westchester, NY on Saturday, June 21st. This retreat is for men who have lost a child to abortion and are seeking healing. All reservations are confidential.

To learn more or to register, call 877-586-4621 or email lumina@postabortionhelp.org.

Bulletins are a discreet yet powerful way to reach those in need. Everyone picks one up—no one knows why. By including this in your church or community bulletin, you may be offering someone exactly what they’ve been praying for.

Let’s not allow another 20 years to pass for someone waiting to be heard. Share this message. Share this hope. Because men hurt too—and they deserve healing.

For more about Lumina and the Entering Canaan retreat, visit postabortionhelp.org.

Lumina. Ministering to men for 20 years. In this Year of Hope—let’s bring mercy to light.

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